.Chriserena.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

You Can't Please Everyone.
From Aesop's Fables: The Man, The Boy, and The Donkey

A man and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?”So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.”So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn't gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.”Well the Man didn't know what to do, but at last he took his Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passersby began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said: “Aren't you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor Donkey of yours—you and your hulking son?”The man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the Donkey's feet to it, and raised the pole and the Donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and his fore-feet being tied together, he was drowned.“That will teach you,” said an old man who had followed them:“Please all, and you will please none.”***

And quoted from allinspirations.com,

I quoted it at esther's blog after reading it.If only i am just abit selfish, if only i am just abit evil and not going to concern, maybe i wont be struggling.Should i be selfish for once so to release myself from every person demands?

I don't have to please everyone, i can clearly type it here that whenever you asked me to distribute your flyers, i actually dumped the whole stack of it and went shopping instead, i hate this job but what can i do? I had to run errands i didn't want to do, buying everyone breakfast after 1 call, doing the whole chunks of duty roaster that i didn't do at home at all, serving drinks to that partner of yours, and when i merely just asked her to make a cup of tea that day, the next day you just told me off, saying given the status i am now, i am not SUPPOSE to ask her to do anything for me, yet for herself she can, all because you are the BOSS.I don't think i had to work like SH*T for you, for your shop.I don't even feel like contributing for your shop, actually i don't think i need to.No, seriously.I can really say i still like my pervious job alot more thou the long hours and stuffs like that, we treated everyone the same, not even the shop manager ordered me like that, I just do everything i need to do every morning and that's it, she won't order us again.Just briefly told us nicely to do things she want us to do.THATS ALL!!! Not everything, Serena computer cannot work, Serena, tea or coffee please, Serena, wash the stained skirt customer had stained with her MENSES!!!, Serena, wash the cups, vacume the floor, wipe the table, do this do that, AND YET WHAT I FUCKING HEARD FROM MY OWN MOTHER THAT YOU TOLD HER I TREATED THAT PLACE AS MY HOME, WHEN I ACTUALLY DO THINGS ACCORDINGLY TO WHAT YOU FUCKING TOLD ME, WHAT YOU FUCKING ORDERED ME, LIKE A FUCKING DOG LISTENING TO HER FUCKING OWNER, ( EVEN A DOG WOULDN'T BE TREATED LIKE TT) BUYING BREAKFAST, LUNCH, DINNER WHEN YOU OR YOUR PARTNER JUST MERELY SAID A WORD , AIYA LAZY LEH, AIYA SIAN LEH, BUT HUNGRY LEH, ASK SERENA GO BUY LA. HOR MISS, I AM NOT YOUR HIRED MAID OK, YA SO WHAT I AM A TRAINEE? no is ACTUALLY, TRAINEE CUM FLYER DISTRIBUTER, CUM RECEPTIONST, CUM DUTY ROASTERS, CUM THIS N THAT.How about me? When i'm hungry who bothers? i had to buy myself food.make myself tea or milo. I worked like ass everyday, went home drop on bed like dead, yet you still claimed that you are tired or what.Or even saying " Serena why so tired, your work so relaxed liao still so tired??"

FUCK YOU!!!

i don't fucking care if you read this, if i had set my mind to type all this, venting my angers here, i wouldn't had scare/fear that you will read this one day.

I felt much better.

Thanks ting and mong for listening my whinnings , Z.Z too. ;)

Thanks baby for lending me your shoulder yesterday while saying all these, i should had told you eariler.

-7:27 AM